Banishing a Ghost
The wife of a man became very sick. On her deathbed, she said to him, "I
love you so much! I don't want to leave you, and I don't want you to betray
me. Promise that you will not see any other women once I die, or I will come
back to haunt you."
For several months after her death, the husband did
avoid other women, but then he met someone and fell in love. On the night that
they were engaged to be married, the ghost of his former wife appeared to him.
She blamed him for not keeping the promise, and every night thereafter she
returned to taunt him. The ghost would remind him of everything that
transpired between him and his fiancee that day, even to the point of
repeating, word for word, their conversations. It upset him so badly that he
couldn't sleep at all.
Desperate, he sought the advice of a Zen master
who lived near the village. "This is a very clever ghost," the master said
upon hearing the man's story. "It is!" replied the man. "She remembers every
detail of what I say and do. It knows everything!" The master smiled, "You
should admire such a ghost, but I will tell you what to do the next time you
That night the ghost returned. The man responded just as the
master had advised. "You are such a wise ghost," the man said, "You know that
I can hide nothing from you. If you can answer me one question, I will break
off the engagement and remain single for the rest of my life." "Ask your
question," the ghost replied. The man scooped up a handful of beans from a
large bag on the floor, "Tell me exactly how many beans there are in my
At that moment the ghost disappeared and never
People's reactions to this story: "Ghosts are just human and
can't know or do anything that a human can't."
"No one knows
everything. Not even a spirit. You can be wise in some ways, but not in all
"The ghost kept coming back because the man was always impressed
by how it seemed to know everything. It had power over him. But when he
finally stood up to it, and challenged it, the ghost disappeared forever."
"The ghost is actually a part of the man. So it couldn't know anything
that the man himself didn't know."
"The ghost comes from the man's own
mind. He created it. It is his own guilt that came back to haunt
"The reason something haunts us is because we keep our attention
on it. When we move on beyond it it will disappear."
"To me, this story
just shows that souls have memories, but not enlightenment."
like the ending. I read the story with high expectations, but felt let down in
"Why didn't the ghost know that the man had seen a Zen
"If the wife really loved the husband, how could she subject
him to such a promise?"
"Everything the ghost knew didn't amount to a
handful of beans!"
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